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5 Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life

Looking for some ideas to switch it up and make your roll in the hay a bit more exciting?  Don’t let your sex life go stale!  Check out these awesome tips to rock both of your worlds!

1  Roleplaying

We know, you’ve heard it before.  Do you know why?  Because so many people like it!  Most people, however, are very shy when it comes to this type of play acting in the bedroom.  They feel silly or self-conscious.  This type of play requires you to open to your partner in a way you possibly never have before.  It creates a new level of trust and makes you both feel sexy.  All you have to do is be honest and open about your fantasies and you’ll open up a whole new world of possibilities!  Roleplaying is not just sexy for men.  Sure, a lot of guys want a sexy school girl or a horny nurse, but women have similar fantasies that can be explored.  Maybe she has a thing for uniforms (female here, a LOT of us do).  Maybe she had a super-hot teacher in high school she always wanted to get with.  It may take a little bit of effort to get your partner to open up but it’s totally worth it

2  Technology

You may be asking yourself what does technology have to do with sex?  In this day and age…everything!  There are tons of apps out there to play with now.  This is a particularly good way to keep your sex life going strong when your partner lives far away or travels a lot for work.  There are a bunch of apps now let you control your partner’s pleasure from a distance.  You can connect all kinds of toys through apps and literally FEEL what your partner is doing and how they are reacting to stimuli.  If you like vibrating panties, this tech goes so far beyond them.  If you love sex and love your phone, you definitely need to check out these apps.  There are so many different kinds you’re sure to find something you love

3  Bondage

We’re aware that this sounds scary for some.  You have to really trust your partner, but bondage tends to bring up mental images of crazy domination and even toys and things that look super uncomfortable (unless you’re into that)!  However, the great thing about bondage is you can go as slow or fast as you like.  If you’re nervous, trying some silk restraints are a great way to start.  Tie them loosely so if you start feeling like it’s not for you, you can easily get out of them.  Some people just like the idea of bondage but don’t truly want to be helpless.  Take it slow, use a safe word and give up your inhibitions and you can find some amazing pleasure in giving your body up to your partner.

4  Sex Toys

Bring fun into the bedroom (or whatever takes your fancy) to improve your sex life. A starting point here would be to experiment with sex toys.  There are so many sex toys available on the market now for both men and women including love eggs, vibrators, dildos and anal toys, so what ever takes your fancy, start experimenting right now, you will not be disappointed.  If you are a little bit too embarrassed to walk into a sex shop then why not buy them online. They will be delivered direct to your door in discreet packaging and many online retailers offer FREE online delivery.

5  Get Out Your iPhone

So much fun can be had with your camera!  Do a sexy photoshoot.  Capture your partner in hot positions, click away as they take their clothes off, and take some sexy selfies!  You can keep them for later or delete them right away, depending on your comfort level.  If you want to get even more adventurous prop that thing up on a dresser and let the camera roll while you get it on!  It’s fun to be sexy on camera and you’ll love watching it later, too!